For many people the concept of creating our own reality is a very difficult one to grasp. This is perfectly understandable in this realm of duality where all soul aspects choose to experience limitation and separation from Source (God). For even though you have forgotten your true self, your abilities remain intact. You are an aspect of God and as a consequence, are an individual creator with all the abilities of an unlimited being (aspect of God). To create your own reality simply means that because you as a creator energy, whatever you think, whatever you fear, or whatever you love, you will experience in your reality on some level.

You exist solely to explore your own creativity. You are a unlimited creator exploring limitation in a realm of duality where at this time fear rules. It is possible for this world to be motivated by love though, it is just a choice of those who inhabit this world.

You are an aspect of your greater self or soul. Your physical body is incapable of containing the totality of your soul. Your soul encompasses many different realms or dimensions within this universe at the same time. You exist simultaneously in many different realms. To your soul or greater self all of the lives its aspects experience exist at the same time. What you call the past, the present and future are contained within the totality of your souls energies. To your soul (higher self) there is just the now.

The reason your soul aspect is experiencing this realm is because of the energies that are unique to this world, this dimension. The soul will choose to experience everything this level has to offer and will keep coming back here until it experienced fully all aspects of its creating and co-creating opportunities with others.

As you exist in a universe where you co-create your reality with other souls and their aspects you will find those soul aspects who are your parents, your siblings, your friends, your lovers, your employers and those people who you despise, judge or resent our simply soul aspects from previous incarnations where you have had co-creating experiences with that are not yet completed or brought into balance. For example: in a previous lifetime you from your perspective you believed that women were less than men, that they have little value other than providing for your needs. As a consequence there was no loving your relationships with women, all that was experienced was an abuse of power on your part and from the woman or woman's perspective giving their power to you. So in the lifetime your soul aspect would have the opportunity of experiencing abuse of power, controlling women through the abuse of power.

Your soul will then choose in a future incarnation to experience that which the soul aspect has caused others to experience through the abuse of its power. It will choose to have an aspect of itself incarnate into another life with those other soul aspects from the previous life and have the roles reversed. In the previous lifetime it experienced and learnt what was like to lord it over others. To having the roles reversed than the soul will have an opportunity to experience the totality of its own creating. (you reap what you sow, or as I prefer to say you wear what you sow).

Another example would be the soul aspect who chooses to the abuse other soul aspects sexually. In the lifetime where the soul aspect abuses others sexually all it will experience is what it is like to do that. It will have no comprehension of the consequences of its actions as far as those it abuses. So to bring in to balance the consequences of the choice to be sexually abusive to others it will choose in a future lifetime to be abused in a similar fashion. The soul aspect or aspects that experience the sexual abuse will take on board the negative energies of the abuser. In a future lifetime where the roles are reversed those same energies will be returned to the abuser, the creator of those energies. And as a consequence the abuser now has opportunity to experience the totality of all that it has created and co-created with others. For the soul is now has a total understanding of the consequences of choosing to be abusive and its relations with others on these levels.

So to sum up those people who are in your immediate family and who have any kind of powerful relationships with you outside of your family are the ones who are your greatest teachers.

If you were to encounter a soul aspect from a previous incarnations that was predominantly negative in your experiences you would find one of your first responses would be to reject that person. The reason for this is simply you would feel the negative energies that were a consequence of those past incarnations and you would more than likely say to yourself I do not like that person, I do not like what I feel from that person. Some of the negative energies you would feel once your energy fields came into contact with each other would be the negative energies that person has been carrying around for you that you had created in the previous incarnation and whose purpose in this incarnation is simply to return them to you. Soul to soul will choose to send an aspect of itself into a situation where the aspect will find it very difficult to reject the other soul aspects has chosen to have cool creating experiences with an order to bring into balance those previous experiences. It is easy to reject someone that is a stranger, but harder to reject someone who is part of your immediate family. Although there are many on this planet who find it easy to reject those people within their immediate family because of these experiences from the past and the consequences of those experiences in the current experiences. Your soul chooses its experiences in these realms but what it cannot choose is the choices the soul aspect will make once it incarnates here. 

The purpose of your soul is to explore its unlimited creativity, so in each realm that it chooses to explore it will more often than not choose to experience everything that particular level has to offer it. Your soul will choose to experience all the different races and cultures that exist in this world. It would choose to explore all the different types of relationships that are available to it to experience. It will choose to experience in future incarnations all of those things it chooses to judge in others in this incarnation. If you have problems with people who choose to experience being in a relationship of the same sex you can be assured that in a future incarnation that will be one of your experiences. We are all of the light. Those people who are of other races and cultures are your brothers and sisters in spirit. 

As stated earlier you're soul is an individualized personality with free will. Once the soul sends an aspect of itself into the level of experience it chooses to experience, that aspect becomes an individualized personality with free will also. It is of the soul, it is one with the soul yet it is separate from the soul.

The choices made on a soul level determined again Where in the universe the soul aspect will find itself. Because of the soul aspect has free will, it can choose to embrace the soul's intent or not. This is also known to the soul. Many aspects come into this level with intent of pursuing a certain path only to find themselves choosing other paths. This can be a consequence of their refusal to deal with their fears or simply the fact that the other soul aspect/aspects who were meant to be part of the co-creating experiences in this lifetime have made other choices that no longer allow them an opportunity to experience that which they have chosen. Of course this is no mystery or surprise to the greater self or soul. The soul knows it has all eternity to explore all the choices available to it.

As this is a realm of duality all soul aspects have an opportunity to experience creating with love and creating with fear . As this is a dark planet in comparison to the greater universe which is settled in love and light most soul aspects on this level find their created abilities being influenced more by fear than love.

Because of the nature of duality everything a soul aspect experiences has to be brought into balance at some point through its experiences. This is what gives the soul the experience of reincarnation. Everything has to be brought into balance and experienced fully before the soul transcends these levels of experience.

In the greater universe, there is no such thing as reincarnation, it is not normal to reincarnate repeatedly on the same planet or in the same realm. There is no judgment of any kind in the greater universe of what other souls choose to experience. If this was understood in the world this would be a very different world. To give you an example: those people who stand in judgment of others for any reason will find themselves in a future incarnation choosing to experience the very things they were in judgment of. If you think living in a relationship with another of the same sex is disgusting and sinful you can be assured in a future incarnation you will have an opportunity to experience your judgments around others who choose to have these experiences. You will find yourself having those experiences you were in judgment of. If in this life you choose to be bigoted and see your race as better than all others, you will find in a future incarnation as you will choose to experience the race or culture you were in judgment of.

Your energies determine where you find yourself within the universe. If you choose to create with fear than your energies of course reflect those choices. The longer a soul aspect embraces fear, the greater the negativity becomes within the soul aspect. As the soul aspects energies become negative its finds itself unable to link to its greater self and God. Its greater self is a being of the light that exist within the light. To be one with your greater self requires you to be in sync with those energies. The energy and fear of course is not in sync with the energy of love. When you choose fear in your experiences your energies of course reflect that and you automatically denying your own soul, your own innate unlimited all-knowing self.

To give you an analogy of this principle, consider the following. For a radio to receive a signal from a radio station or transmitter it has to be on the same frequency as the transmitter. The universe is one large energy field that encompasses many different frequencies or vibrational levels of experience. (The universe is multidimensional). Your energy field determines your level of experience in the universe. Your choices determine the state of your energy field. When you choose to create from the place of love you open yourself up to all the other energies in the universe who resonate to the energy of love.

When you allow fear to be your master you open yourself up to all the other energies that resonate to fear or darkness. As your soul or greater self is a being of love, as God is a being of love, you resonate or vibrate at a level that makes it impossible for you to be connected to these energies when you create from a place of fear.

Many people feel rejected or abandoned by God on this planet. They are incapable of feeling God's love or their connection to God simply because their energies are so negative. As stated earlier to know God, to be one with God simply requires you to be like God, a loving being. To be a loving being requires you to honour the free will choices of every other being you encounter regardless of the choices they make.

Whatever you judge in your experience around the free will choices of others will ensure that at some point you will have those experiences yourself. Whenever you judge others you'll find that you also create an energy link or bond with those others and you share in the energies of those you are in judgment of. We are all connected on and energy level or non-physical level, we are all connected simply because we are part of a collective consciousness, because we'll come from the same place, because we are all part of the same family. What determines are connections to other energies is our own energies. If we are fearful, if we are judgmental then our energies reflect that and we will find our strongest links and bonds to other energies will be on those levels that resonate to our fears. 

To give you an example: there is someone in your experience that you are in judgment of for whatever reason. This other person's living a life from a place of fear. They are angry and resentful around their life's experiences and opportunities. Their thoughts are negative as a consequence and their energies reflect that. When you are in judgment of this person you link to them on an energy level. You will find yourself sharing in their energies and they yours. You will find yourself sharing in their thoughts, there judgments and all the other ways they perceive their reality. 

You could wake up in the morning feeling good then all of a sudden find yourself feeling various negative emotions and thoughts, you could find yourself becoming tired. All you are feeling is the energies of this other person you are in judgment of and as a consequence linking to. It can become very confusing when you have negative thoughts and feelings coming into your consciousness that have nothing really to do with what is going on in your own experience. It is simply your judgments that allow you to share in the energies of those you judge. Therefore, the only way to be free of other people's energies is to love unconditionally. The only way to love unconditionally is to honour the free will choices of all others regardless of what they may be just as God does.

Again when you create from fear your energies reflect that and you will find yourself linking to all the other energies in this planetary consciousness that you are part of who are also coming from the same place. The same holds true for you when you create from a place of love. You will find yourself linking to all the other energies of love. You will find these links and bonds uplifting and energizing. You will find your ability to open to source of her God and the greater universe increasing tremendously.

What you experience in your reality is a consequence of your thoughts, your choices. The totality of God does not interfere in any way in your free will choices. You can pray to God all you want for change in your life, the only time you will experience changes when you make different choices. God has created you with free will and created the universe you find yourself in with all that you need to explore your unlimited creative self. You are the master of your own experience.

The key to becoming spiritually aware is simply to create from a place of love. Within your soul, your totality which is an aspect of God manifest in this universe is all knowledge. When you choose to create from a place of love you will find yourself automatically opening up to your greater self and as a consequence to the greater universe and all that it has to offer. Whether you are imprisoned in fear and darkness or set free through choosing love is totally determined by how you exercise your free-will.  

Your life's experiences simply reflect those thoughts you have chosen to empower.